my happy thoughts

my  family- my family comforts me whenever i need
teddy bear- it symbolizes a friendship that i have been treasuring until now from my best friend before
book-it symbolizes how i studying hard for my dreams
pencil- a pencil symbolizes my ideas
flower-it symbolizes my feminity of being a girl
lipstick-lipstick symbolizes how I am so enthusiastic on putting make up into my face to to other people whom i close
colors- colors symbolizes my life, coz my life is in different colors right now no one can ever predict what will happen to our lives
 god- he is there whenever we need him

HINDRANCES
money- is the one hindrances that put me into trouble when I need to buy things
poverty-this is one of the reason that takes me into being so insecure to some people who are rich
financial stability- it gives me hatreds to life because why i never been stable in terms of financial
my brother- because of him until now he couldn't accept that it was me that studying right now and not him

-I will do my best to achieve all my dreams
-I will be strong though there are many hardships in life
-I will understand our my brother to the very best that I can
-I will be thrifty so I can save many and use it when i need it
-I will study hard so I can be who ever I want to be.
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sample of guidance program

Comprehensive Elementary Guidance Program
Belief Statements
We believe…

• All students have individual abilities and are capable of learning with support from family, community and educators.
• All students have the right to be treated with dignity and respect and learn in a safe, supportive environment.

Assumptions

A school counseling program:

• Reaches every student

• Is comprehensive in scope
• Is proactive in design
• Is developmental in nature
• Is an integral part of a total educational program for student success
• Selects measurable student competencies based on local need in the area of academic, career and personal/social domains.
• Has a delivery system that includes school guidance curriculum, individual planning, responsive services and system support
• Is implemented by a credentialed school counselor
• Is conducted in collaboration with all stakeholders.
• Uses data to drive program decisions
• Monitors student progress
• Measures both process and outcome-results and analyzes critical data elements
• Seeks improvement each year based on results data
• Shares successes with stakeholders.

All school counselors will:

• Plan and manage the comprehensive school counseling program in collaboration with all elementary counselors.
• Abide by the professional school counseling ethics as advocated by the American School Counselors Association.
• Participate in professional development activities essential to maintaining a quality school counseling program.

Mission Statement

The mission of the Davenport Community School’s comprehensive school guidance program is to enhance each student’s ability to acquire knowledge, attitudes and skills in the academic, career and personal/social domains to become contributing members of our diverse society.
 

god's love

part2 Nadja a woman woman living with his husband for many years  has just found her self depressed because of not having a child of  their own. despite of that she and her husband still sticked to each other and live like the ordinary couple do,they live happily and harmoniously. though they have no child they never stop  praying that one day they will be given A to be a parents of their own child, one day Nadja dreamed that she was left by her husband because of  not having child for  many years she cried and afraid to be left by her  husband then  she talked to him and her husband promised that no matter what happen he would never leave Nadja, one day Nadja was feeling not well so she went to her doctor to know if she is sick. she was shocked when her doctor said that she was pregnant for a 2 months. when the Christmas eve came Nadja talked to her husband and she told to him that she was pregnant .her husband was so very happy and they thank god for that gift they had.
part3 Negative-
the weak point of the story was that when Nadja thought that she would leave by her husband because of her incapability to have a child
Positive-
The positive point of the story is the fact that her husband did not leave her regardless of  their situation, that his husband accepted her whoever is she,the fact that they never loose trusting god and hoping that one day they will be given a chance to be a father and mother of their own child.
Part4
 like Nanja I sometimes suspect people cause i do not trust people easily, but when in terms of trusting god its him that i trust my whole life, and like Naja I am a hopefuls that one day everything will fall on its proper place and all my problems will just fade away coz its god that guides me and its god that gives me people to trust with and to lean on with as i live in this world.
Part 5
 with this story I have realized that its a nature of man to suspect and not to give trust easily, i have also realized after all it isn't bad to trust people around that maybe the reason why we don't trust people is that the fact that we are afraid to hurt by those people around us.

child's behavior checklist

child's name:____________________ Birthdate:___________

Teacher/Observer:_______________ Date Tested:_________

Please answer all items as many truthfully and honestly

Answer it by filling the blanks with the following A for often times B for sometimes C for no if the chid doest not showing the behavior. ans please specify when happens.

Feelings & Emotions

• Anxiety, Fears, and Phobias?___
• Becoming a Stepparent?___
• Body Dysmorphic Disorder?___
• Childhood Stress?___
• Cutting?___
• Cyberbullying?___
• Eating Disorders?___
• How Can Spirituality Affect Your child's Health?___
• Is Your Child Too Busy?___
• My Son Is Being Deployed?___
• Postpartum Depression?___
• Posttraumatic Stress Disorder?___
• Questions and Answers About Sex?___
• Seasonal Affective Disorder?___
• Separation Anxiety?___
• Sexual Attraction and Orientation?___
• Sibling Rivalry?___
• Understanding Depression?___
• When a Pet Dies does he cry?___

christmas for sale

the most celebrated season is celebrated on every December 25 of the year worldwide this is Christmas.
Christmas is a time for giving and renewing ourselves for a new coming year. it is a celebration for Jesus birthday rather. this is also the season of showing  how we appreciate others .this is the season for giving and forgiving other people on what they have done wrong to us, Christmas is also about reconciliation of the enemies this is the right time to forget those thing that others have done to us badly. meaning to say Christmas is not just about gifts this is about how we thank god for the life that he has been given to us and to remember his sacrifices and love to us

so this Christmas season I am now inviting you  let us be a giver of love to our love ones, lets thank god for this life, though there were  lots of crisis that we have been experienced let us still celebrate Christmas as we do every year, but this time I am encouraging you to celebrate it with more appreciation and kind do not just give a simple gifts nor a n expencive one but instead a gift that will make a person  happier and that can be treasured for the rest of  his life. maybe a simple cards means a lot or even a simple greeting as well. for as long as your gifts come from your heart its OK don't be afraid to give it to the people who needs it the most..!
specially to the people who has had a destroyed houses, properties, etch.. let  it be christmas everyday  and make your time worthwhile maybe by spending it wise and useful for other people. if  I were be given a gift this christmas I would treasure it for the rest of my life. because after all somebody has remembered me this christmas.. no matter how expensive or hw cheap are your gifts. it doesn't matter because its a matter of  how a person appreciate you and your gift..for as long as your gifts are from your heart.

This Christmas season I am inviting you to celebrate this Christmas with the concern to your love ones, lets celebrate life, though we have experienced lots of hardships in life after all there is Christmas that promises us to hope and to wish a good life for the coming year..again lets make our Christmas a wonderful Christmas. a Christmas of good health, healthy living, forgiving and forgetting, and also a Christmas of kindness....
MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL ....... Let us all be strong as we face the new chapter of our life.....

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Common Problem of Early Childhood Children

Past Lives and Early Childhood
This article deals with some aspects of past lives that explain how our personality develops since early childhood. We refer here to the root of many small to major emotional disturbances that impede or become a heavy burden toward happiness and success.

The effects of emotional disturbances relate to what we call mental blocks, unexplained fears, obsessive behavior, depression, anxiety, addictions, uncontrolled anger, eating disorders, self-destructive behavior, and many other long standing problems affecting many people's lives for the worst.

Let's see how the memories from past lives may play with negative emotions experienced during childhood.

When confronting situations like those that imply fearing rejection, loss of something important, real or emotional death, doing something against our will, guilt, anger, and many others implying some sort of fear or frustration, somehow a part of our brain provides an understanding of them based on our past experiences configuring an scope of possible results, alternatives of solutions and actions to take.

During childhood the understanding of those situations are associated to experiences usually related to the family members, their behavior and other situations related to the basic needs and feelings experienced in childhood.

In childhood, while the child does not experience traumatic situations, the memories related to what is experienced are brought in a normal way and the new experiences are healthily stored in memory.

But when some traumatic situation occurs, like hard beat ups, physical and emotional abuse, threats, abandonment, denial of the supply for the basic needs, lack of affection, isolation, being ignored etc, the child confronting such situations may access those memories that belong to traumatic situations experienced during past lives to find some way to psychologically adapt to the situation.

An important fact to consider here is that nightmares also may bring the need to recall past lives experiences to confront the emotions moved due to them or bring up the use of a character trait stored in the past lives memories to cope with extreme emotions, specially fear.

As a result of some fearful experience, real or dreamed, a character trait from past lives might emerge into the normal personality of the child to serve as a psychological defense. If the situation repeats a number of times, the character trait brought temporarily from past lives may stay as part of the normal personality, thus conditioning the same reaction when confronting situations that are somehow associated in the subconscious mind as the same or similar situations, with disregard of important aspects that make them different in the reality.

The normal personality takes the present reality into account. The part of the personality that has been taken from past lives takes the present reality under the conditions that belong to past lives, thus inducing an emotional understanding that do not fit the real social practice of the child and later, when the same child becomes an adult.

The above explain why some persons stay in the wrong relationships, cannot control anger, experience anxiety, social phobia, depression, etc. while others, the majority, in their same situation, do not.