my own theraphy

COMPANIONSHIP THERAPY




View of human nature

companionship, everyone of us needs companion or sometimes we called friends, or a person whom we can talk  
to whenever we are in need, we as a human it is natural to us to feel sometimes that we are left behind that sometimes could lead us to become feeling alone and perhaps even you have experienced it already. but the question is how are we going to accept things things that we called phenomena, a phenomena is sometimes occurs like a thief we never know when or how will it happen, how sure you are that if ever it occurs you are ready to accept it? this question will lead us to this therapy called a companion therapy.


Function of the therapist

here in this therapy the function of the therapist is to provide a play or facilitating play rather in order to help the client to cope up in his tragic situation. the therapist here will serve not just a therapist but instead a playmate or a companion rather so the client will never feel that he/she is being left. the client that this therapy can help are the people who can't cope up with their situation like the people who is in denial that still believing that their love ones are still existing, the people who are have experienced a natural disaster, or perhaps a woman or a child who have experienced an abuse. with the help of the therapist as their companion the therapist for us much as possible will sympathize to them so they wont feel alone or being left behind.

Goals of the therapy 

the main goal of this therapy is to help the client to speak out their problems and to cope up, and to find solution to their problem as well. this therapy letting the client to realize that after death or after an tragic situation there is a new day to come to start a new life, it makes the client that he/she is not alone because there are still a life that he/she should continue, it also helps the client to realize that sometimes things really happen naturally. tragedy or death comes naturally its a natural phenomenon that we all of us will need to face .. it help the client to be strong to face the truth and the situation. and thats the major goals of this therapy.

Major methods and techniques

.confronting the problems
.supporting
. sympathizing

Summary in eced 11

EVALUATION FOR TERMINATION AND FOLLOW UP

There are 2 criteria should be used in determining whether to continue therapy. these are:

1) Family goals should be met
2) New goals should be established

These 2 criteria are important to avoid family to think or feel that therapy is not working and don't be upset with the therapist.

there are several guidelines the therapist should follow when terminating with the family:
1) Plan for termination in advance
2) plan to gradually withdraw therapy
3) summarize the major themes
4) Ask the family to decide what needs to happen for them to return to therapy.
5) Reassure the family that they have the strengths and resources to deal with future problems.

CONDUCTING FOLLOW-UP EVALUATION

FOLLOW-UP> it allows the therapist to find out how the family is progressing and to discuss new problems if any have developed.
                       > It can be short-term (2-4 weeks) or long term (3-6 months) here are several reasons for follow-up contact with the family. these reasons are:

1) Many families need a booster shot following termination
2) Follow-up helps assess the effectiveness of the intervention program.
3) Planned follow-up encourages the family to monitor their own change program and thus benefit from contact with the therapist.

There are several ways he therapist can conduct follow-up;

1) Conduct a follow-up interview at home or office.
2) Make a telephone call.
3) Mail a questionnaire to the family.

EVALUATIONS IN TRAINING

- Formal evaluations of therapists are often model-specific, they evaluate the trainee's mastery of the therapeutic process specified by a certain school of family therapy.
- In addition to these formal methods of evaluating trainees, it is important for family therapists to monitor their own progress and development in personal ways.
- In addition, when family therapists evaluate their own patterns of fatigue and stagnation, their own creativity and growth can be maximized.

EVALUATION AS CLINICAL RESEARCH

-Clinicians are rarely up to call themselves recherches or scientists.
- Recherches connotes an interest in the explicit, observable,and  quantifiable parts of human experience.
- The family therapists see that clinical research can have great relevance to their work.
- Ethnographic studies on client perceptions can provide therapists with a mirror of their professional role.
- Clinicians can participate in systematic inquiry for formal and informal research as clinicians begin to observe and understand these patterns, their work can be influenced by the new information.
- Family therapists are currently learning more about the relevance of quantitative research.



GROUP 8 SUMMARY FOR ECED 11
MEMBERS:
Obinguar, Maria Lorena
Molina, REsielle Jane
Gemantiza, Mae Lannie
Garcia, Nancy
Lorezo, Jacquelyn

Case study

Case Study

A.Personality Data Summary

Christina Ramirez is a 6 year old child born on the date of January 5,2005 in Bagong silang caloocan city, Filipino and a roman Catholic. She is now studying at the kabukiran day care center she is now on her kindergarten year. Her parents are MR. Cesar Ramirez and Mrs. Rosemarie Ramirez. Christina is my client for this said case study.and she is the youngest.

B.Joining process
Narrate/Describe

The mother of my client is one of my mom's customer in meat. I was introduced to her by my mom, my mom told her that i was looking for a kid that i could observe for some reason then I was called by my mom then I told to the mother that it was me the one that is looking for a kid for my observation then she agreed to me that I could use her daughter to my observation. since then I started going to their house whenever I could find some free time. I was introduced to child as her "ate Nancy" she calls me ate nanz when she wants to say something to me.. thats thinning of my observation to the child.

C. Presenting problem

According to her mom Rosemarie Ramirez her child is a spoiled child her grand parents treat her as a princess. Her mom said that maybe it  could be one of the reason why her child acted that way even to her other siblings according to them because Christina my client is the youngest among the siblings maybe that’s what leads Christina to become an attension seeker. She gets what she wants when she is with her grand parents.

According to teacher Fe Christina’s teacher Christina sometimes gets others belongings though she has lots of those thing she feels envy sometime.she also teases her other classmates that brougth her into fight somrtimes.

D.Long trail of events
Psychosocial history
D1. Time line

Genoram/ 3rd Generation

A

at school

D4. Personality dynamics for self mastery

According to her mom when i asked her mom she said that her daughter was good in academics she could also communicate well as if she was an old one, she could also count and starting to read some English words and Tagalog words, she could say things perfectly but sometimes when she speaks for it she got mad easily, she wanted also to be the boss for their play as if that she wants to take the responsibility of an individual.

D5. Personality dynamic for relationship

According to her mom her doughtier Christina was a lolo's girl. She was a lolo's girl ever since, her lolo always find her as his favorite grand doughtier for some reasons, While according to her brother Christoper, Christina loves her mom and there were many times that he noticed that Christina wanted to be the center of the attention to their family e specially when her mother was around. She teases her other siblings with many things. she was a bully according also to her brother Christoper. While according to my client herself she just wanted to show how talented she is that is why she was showing how good she is in dancing and to tease her other siblings.

D6.Personality dynamic for action

According to her mom Rosemarie her daughter Christina does have a routine she asks for some food after playing around. Christina likes to help her in dong some households but she refuses but still Christina would insist what she want. While according to her lolo Christina is a child that has a good heart she really helps her lolo and even her other sibling to do some jobs/households inside the house. according to him sometimes Christina is asked to buy something in the store outside their house she could also do washing the dishes specially when it is asked by him or by her mom.

E. theoretical framework

WILLIAM JAMES, REMARKS

Everyone knows what attention is. It is the taking possession by the mind, in clear and vivid form, of one out of what seem several simultaneously possible objects or trains of thought. Focalization, concentration, of consciousness are of its essence. It implies withdrawal from some things in order to deal effectively with others, and is a condition which has a real opposite in the confused, dazed, scatterbrained state which in French is called distraction, and Zerstreutheit in German.^[3]

F. Prognosis

Based on the data that i have gathered from the people around my client. I think my client is not so bad maybe because of being the youngest among the sibling it is what contributes to her behavior and maybe because she is the lolo's favorite grand daughter perhaps we can consider his fact that contributes to her misbehavior.the bullying way of treating others around her especially her other siblings and classmates that takes her into trouble sometimes I said just a while ago that my client is that so bad it is because she can take responsibilities perhaps that responsibilities leads her to become an individual whose bossy and sometimes it is mis interpreted by other people around her.in addition to that she is known as one of the helpful among the members of their family according to her grand father. I think it was not really her intension to hurt someone or to grab things without permission she might be an attention seeker that seeks for the attention of the people around her because she has exercised that treatment from her lolo.

G. Therapeutic Plan 

Solutions

G1.Knowledge Building

At the end of the case the client child must be given an appraisal because she is good in academics, communication and many more, but make it sure that appraisal will be helpful for the child and will  not lead to a building up of an another behavior,

G2 Skills Building

Because the child according to some people around her like her mom, that her child is helping her to some households shores. the child must be given a an appreciation because she has this skills to help other people around her, socials skills is still need to be developed is that because the child is having difficulties to work and to deal with the other people around her. it was stated in the above information that her bossy attitude arises sometimes, the child needs develop how to be humble because to much of the bossy attitude will lead to be misunderstood by others.

G3.Attitude Building

according to the people around her the child sometimes steals the things of her classmates the child I think must be given an enough understanding and attention from her father, because maybe this is one of the factor that we can consider why this child is behaving in that way she needs to be taught that stealing is a mortal sin that will lead her into jail if she will do it again and again, she must also need to be taught to respect other people around her so she will not tease her other siblings and classmates. perhaps the treatment of her lolo is one of the factor why this child is having this misbehavior, because she  has exercised that she can get whatever she wants because her lolo she maybe thinking that everything she does will make her lolo proud and happy without knowing that it could might hurt other people.

H.Therapeutic intervention

I.Therapeutic Progress

J.Therapeutic Result

when i conducted the activities together with her playmates, classmates and other people around It had been a great help to me because of that i diagnosed my client on what kind of misbehavior she has. according to her mom she is a bit naughty but as we go along to the process i noticed that little by little my client was changing
and her mom is happy for that. because of that i diagnosed my client as an attention seeker because she got accustomed her self with so much attention that she receives  from her grand father. as we play together I noticed that she was so happy and she was not Aggressive like what her mother keeps on telling me. she is a good girl thats how I used to know her. she was just not given a good model to imitate neither a guidelines to be followed if ever they commit mistakes.

K.Summary

My client Christina Ramirez a doughtier of Mr. and Mrs. Ramirez is a five year old kid female who is studying in Kabukiran day care center who is said aggressive and being accused of stealing. I met my client Christina Ramirez by her mother, her mother is my mom's costumer that introduced me to my client.
My client is a good student she knows how to express herself to others, she can also communicate well, she can also be given some little task in house hold. I diagnosed her as an attention seeker because her parents are not always around to watch them and they are just being entrusted to their grand father. I concluded that my client is an attention seeker because of some factors the environment, the family setting, the the grand father and the school this factors are the reason why my client Christina Ramirez is miss behaving like that.

I. think what leads the child to act that way is that because her father is not around and it was her lolo who is available to act a father features for her, it it maybe what leads her to steal others things because while her mother is working there is no available person around her to teach her and maybe because she is the younghest among the siblings will also leads her to become an attention seeker she is might seeking for her fathers attention and her mother attentions and just because most of the times she was just with her lolo and her other siblings it was just her lolo that cold give her the attention that she is seeking for and maybe because she is feeling not belong to her other siblings could also be consider. she has not enough guidance to follow, we can also consider the environment as one of the factor why is acting that way, it was stated above that she was studying in kabukiran. because she belongs to marginalized family her environment is not that good for her. in relation to that you can see her most of the time outside their house playing with different children.. but after all i was impressed with this child because though she does not belong to a good family and a good environment she proved it to me even her teacher that she was good in class. she can express her self whenever she was asked... 

Recommendation

I recommend that the child needs some bonding moment with her mother and her father but unfortunately her bonding with her father would be impossible is that because her father is not around anymore, I also recommend that the child needs to be guided with the right person not her lolo. due because of her lolo and to the fact that she is the youngest these 2 factors are that possible factors for me that leads her to misbehave like that. The child must be given a concern citizen to guide her not just her but as well as her other siblings. I also recommending that the child must be given a good model to imitate and a good environment these 2 factors should also be consider why this child is misbehaving that way.  

summary of eced 13

SUMMARY OF TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS

TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS (summary)

"The unit of social intercourse is called a transaction. If two or more people encounter each other... sooner or later one of them will speak, or give some other indication of acknowledging the presence of the others. This is called transactional stimulus. Another person will then say or do something which is in some way related to the stimulus, and that is called thetransactional response."3


With this definition, Dr. Berne defined the basic unit of analysis. At its simplest level,Transactional Analysis is the method for studying interactions between individuals. By identifying and standardizing upon a single unit, development and promotion of this theory was easily facilitated. Psychotherapists were able to read about Berne's theories and test them out in their own practices. Dr. Thomas Harris stated in I'm OK - You're OK that in Transactional Analysis, "we have found a new language of psychology."


It should be noted that this approach was profoundly different than that of Freud. While Freud and most other psychotherapists took the rather simplistic approach of asking the patient about themselves, Berne took an alternate approach to therapy. Berne felt that a therapist could learn what the problem was by simply observing what was communicated (words, body language, facial expressions) in a transaction. So instead of directly asking the patient questions, Berne would frequently observe the patient in a group setting, noting all of the transactions that occurred between the patient and other individuals.


Berne's Three Ego States


In addition to the analysis of the interactions between individuals, Transactional Analysis also involves the identification of the ego states behind each and every transaction. Berne defined an ego state as "a consistent pattern of feeling and experience directly related to a corresponding consistent pattern of behavior."4


As a practicing psychiatrist in Carmel, California in the early 1950s, Berne treated hundreds of patients. During the course of their treatment, he consistently noted that his patients, and indeed all people, could and would change over the course of a conversation. The changes would not necessarily be verbal - the changes could involve facial expressions, body language, body temperature, and many other non-verbal cues.


In one counseling session, Berne treated a 35 year old lawyer. During the session, the lawyer (a male) said "I'm not really a lawyer; I'm just a little boy." But outside the confines of Dr. Berne's office, this patient was a successful, hard-charging, attorney. Later, in their sessions, the lawyer would frequently ask Dr. Berne if he was talking "to the lawyer or the little boy." Berne was intrigued by this, as he was seeing a single individual display two "states of being." Berne began referring to these two states as "Adult" and "Child." Later, Berne identified a third state, one that seemed to represent what the patient had observed in his parents when he was small. Berne referred to this as "parent." As Berne then turned to his other patients, he began to observe that these three ego states were present in all of them. As Berne gained confidence in this theory, he went on to introduce these in a 1957 paper - one year before he published his seminal paper introducing Transactional Analysis.


Berne ultimately defined the three ego states as: Parent, Adult, and Child. It should be carefully noted that the descriptions of these ego states do NOT necessarily correspond to their common definitions as used the English language.


Before describing each of the three ego states, it is important to note that these are fundamentally different than Freud's Ego, Id, and Superego. Berne describes this best when he writes in Transactional Analysis in Psychotherapy:


"It will be demonstrated that Parent, Adult, and Child are not concepts, like Superego, Ego, and Id, or the Jungian constructs, but phenomenological realities."5 Stated another way, Freud's ego states are unobservable, theoretical states; but Berne's three ego states can be confirmed with observable behaviors.


The following are detailed descriptions of the three ego states:


Parent - The parent represents a massive collection of recordings in the brain of externalevents experienced or perceived in approximately the first five years of life. Since the majority of the external events experienced by a child are actions of the parent, the ego state was appropriately called Parent. Note that events perceived by the child from individuals that are NOT parents (but who are often in parent-like roles) are also recorded in the Parent. When Transactional Analysts refer to the Parent ego state (as opposed to a biological or stepparent), it is capitalized. The same goes for the other two state (Adult and Child)

Examples of recordings in the Adult include:

· "Never talk to strangers"

· "Always chew with your mouth closed"

· "Look both ways before you cross the street"

It is worth noting that, while recording these events, the young child has no way to filter the data; the events are recorded without question and without analysis. One can consider that these events are imposed on the child.


There are other data experienced by the child that are not recorded in the Parent. This is recorded in the Adult, which will be described shortly.


Child - In contrast to the Parent, the Child represents the recordings in the brain of internalevents associated with external events the child perceives. Stated another way, stored in the Child are the emotions or feelings which accompanied external events. Like the Parent, recordings in the Child occur from childbirth all the way up to the age of approximately 5 years old.


Examples of recordings in the Child include:


· "When I saw the monster's face, I felt really scared"


· "The clown at the birthday party was really funny!


Adult - The Adult is the last ego state. Close to one year of age, a child begins to exhibit gross motor activity. The child learns that he or she can control a cup from which to drink, that he or she can grab a toy. In social settings, the child can play peek-a-boo.

This is the beginning of the Adult in the small child. Adult data grows out of the child's ability to see what is different than what he or she observed (Parent) or felt (Child). In other words, the Adult allows the young person to evaluate and validate Child and Parental data. Berne describes the Adult as being "principally concerned with transforming stimuli into pieces of information, and processing and filing that information on the basis of previous experience"6 Stated another way, Harris describes the Adult as "a data-processing computer, which grinds out decisions after computing the information from three sources: the Parent, the Child, and the data which the adult has gathered and is gathering"7

One of the key functions of the Adult is to validate data in the parent. An example is:

"Wow. It really is true that pot handles should always be turned into the stove" said Sally as she saw her brother burn himself when he grabbed a pot handle sticking out from the stove.

In this example, Sally's Adult reached the conclusion that data in her Parent was valid. Her Parent had been taught "always turn pot handles into the stove, otherwise you could get burned." And with her analysis of her brother's experience, her Adult concluded that this was indeed correct.

In an attempt to explain Transactional Analysis to a more mainstream audience, Dr. Thomas Harris developed the following summary. Although this is a very good tool for beginners to learn, keep in mind that this a wildly simplified approach, and can have the effect of "dumbing down" Transactional Analysis. The summary is as follows:


Parent - taught concept
Child - felt concept
Adult - learned concept

But not all transactions proceed in this manner. Some transactions involve ego states other than the Adult.

This leads us to Parent - Child transactions, which are almost as simple as Adult-Adult transactions. Quoting Dr. Berne in Games People Play: "The fevered child asks for a glass of water, and the nurturing mother brings it."8 In this, the Child of small child directs an inquiry to the Parent of his/her mother. The Parent of the mother acknowledges this stimuli, and then gives the water to the child. In this example, the small child's request is the stimuli, and the parent providing the water is the response.


One of the tools used by a TA practitioner is a structural diagram, as represented on the left. A structural diagram represents the complete personality of any individual. It includes the Parent, Adult, and Child ego states, all separate and distinct from each other.

Transactional Analysts will then construct a diagram showing the ego states involved in a particular transaction. The transaction to the right shows a Parent - Child transaction, with the Child ego state providing the transactional stimulus, and the Adult responding with the transactional response.

This transaction matches the Parent - Child example listed above, with the fevered child asking his/her mother for a glass of water.

So far, the two transactions described can be considered complementary transactions. In a complementary transaction, the response must go back from the receiving ego state to the sending ego state. For example, a person may initiate a transaction directed towards one ego state of the respondent. The respondent's ego state detects the stimuli, and then that particular ego state (meaning the ego state to which the stimuli was directed) produces a response. According to Dr. Berne, these transactions are healthy and represent normal human interactions. As Berne says in Games People Play "communication will proceed as long as transactions are complementary."9

GROUP 5 MEMBERS:
ALMONICIDO, MARY JANE
FRANCISCO, CHRISTINE JOY
SANTANDER, MARLYN
GARCIA, NANCY
LOREZO, JACKYLYN

my happy thoughts

my  family- my family comforts me whenever i need
teddy bear- it symbolizes a friendship that i have been treasuring until now from my best friend before
book-it symbolizes how i studying hard for my dreams
pencil- a pencil symbolizes my ideas
flower-it symbolizes my feminity of being a girl
lipstick-lipstick symbolizes how I am so enthusiastic on putting make up into my face to to other people whom i close
colors- colors symbolizes my life, coz my life is in different colors right now no one can ever predict what will happen to our lives
 god- he is there whenever we need him

HINDRANCES
money- is the one hindrances that put me into trouble when I need to buy things
poverty-this is one of the reason that takes me into being so insecure to some people who are rich
financial stability- it gives me hatreds to life because why i never been stable in terms of financial
my brother- because of him until now he couldn't accept that it was me that studying right now and not him

-I will do my best to achieve all my dreams
-I will be strong though there are many hardships in life
-I will understand our my brother to the very best that I can
-I will be thrifty so I can save many and use it when i need it
-I will study hard so I can be who ever I want to be.
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sample of guidance program

Comprehensive Elementary Guidance Program
Belief Statements
We believe…

• All students have individual abilities and are capable of learning with support from family, community and educators.
• All students have the right to be treated with dignity and respect and learn in a safe, supportive environment.

Assumptions

A school counseling program:

• Reaches every student

• Is comprehensive in scope
• Is proactive in design
• Is developmental in nature
• Is an integral part of a total educational program for student success
• Selects measurable student competencies based on local need in the area of academic, career and personal/social domains.
• Has a delivery system that includes school guidance curriculum, individual planning, responsive services and system support
• Is implemented by a credentialed school counselor
• Is conducted in collaboration with all stakeholders.
• Uses data to drive program decisions
• Monitors student progress
• Measures both process and outcome-results and analyzes critical data elements
• Seeks improvement each year based on results data
• Shares successes with stakeholders.

All school counselors will:

• Plan and manage the comprehensive school counseling program in collaboration with all elementary counselors.
• Abide by the professional school counseling ethics as advocated by the American School Counselors Association.
• Participate in professional development activities essential to maintaining a quality school counseling program.

Mission Statement

The mission of the Davenport Community School’s comprehensive school guidance program is to enhance each student’s ability to acquire knowledge, attitudes and skills in the academic, career and personal/social domains to become contributing members of our diverse society.
 

god's love

part2 Nadja a woman woman living with his husband for many years  has just found her self depressed because of not having a child of  their own. despite of that she and her husband still sticked to each other and live like the ordinary couple do,they live happily and harmoniously. though they have no child they never stop  praying that one day they will be given A to be a parents of their own child, one day Nadja dreamed that she was left by her husband because of  not having child for  many years she cried and afraid to be left by her  husband then  she talked to him and her husband promised that no matter what happen he would never leave Nadja, one day Nadja was feeling not well so she went to her doctor to know if she is sick. she was shocked when her doctor said that she was pregnant for a 2 months. when the Christmas eve came Nadja talked to her husband and she told to him that she was pregnant .her husband was so very happy and they thank god for that gift they had.
part3 Negative-
the weak point of the story was that when Nadja thought that she would leave by her husband because of her incapability to have a child
Positive-
The positive point of the story is the fact that her husband did not leave her regardless of  their situation, that his husband accepted her whoever is she,the fact that they never loose trusting god and hoping that one day they will be given a chance to be a father and mother of their own child.
Part4
 like Nanja I sometimes suspect people cause i do not trust people easily, but when in terms of trusting god its him that i trust my whole life, and like Naja I am a hopefuls that one day everything will fall on its proper place and all my problems will just fade away coz its god that guides me and its god that gives me people to trust with and to lean on with as i live in this world.
Part 5
 with this story I have realized that its a nature of man to suspect and not to give trust easily, i have also realized after all it isn't bad to trust people around that maybe the reason why we don't trust people is that the fact that we are afraid to hurt by those people around us.